Queer Spirit Cape Town

Welcome

Queer Spirit Cape Town is a community space for queer people to gather around conscious sexuality, sacred embodiment, kink, and erotic exploration. It's a space for event hosts and practitioners to share what they're doing without censorship. You'll find event listings, practitioner offerings, and a community of people on similar paths.

Safety and vetting

Safety and consent are central to our culture, which is why we run a vetted group. Once you've submitted this form, an admin will reach out to arrange a brief call. We'll say hello, confirm who you are, and welcome you into the space personally. This way, we are able to verify the identity of each member without you needing to upload your ID. It also means we get to meet everyone!

So go ahead, read and engage with the community agreement, and we'll chat soon.

Relationality and community

We chose this relational route deliberately. Digital spaces can feel anonymous in ways that slowly erode how people treat each other. Knowing that everyone here came in through the same door, that there's a real person behind every profile, shifts something meaningful in the relational field. People show up differently when they're not invisible, and accountability feels less abstract when the community feels connected.

Have you read and understood the above: This space welcomes anyone who is curious about sacred sexuality and conscious embodiment.

Vetted membership means:

Consent

Every interaction in this space is grounded in consent that is freely given, informed, and can be withdrawn at any time. This applies to conversation, direct messages, and event participation equally.

Do not send unsolicited direct messages to members. You may DM someone only if they have explicitly invited contact, and only on the topic of that invitation. Someone posting in the group is not an open invitation to their inbox.

Consent in this space applies to:

Privacy and confidentiality

DO NOT

What members share personally in this space stays private. Do not screenshot, record, or share personal disclosures or private conversations from this group without the explicit permission of everyone involved.

DO

Event listings, workshop details, and offerings may be shared outside the group.

Personal stays here, events can travel.

A member shares something personal in the group. I can:

This is a community space, not a dating app

Posts seeking partners, casual hookups, or romantic connections outside of event contexts are not permitted. This space is for community, learning, and conscious gathering. Connection that emerges organically through shared participation is welcome. Solicitation is not.

If you are interested in attending a partnered event, you may reach out on the group, or you can message the host and see if others have done so too.

Content in the Group

We discuss sacred sexuality, kink, and erotic experience openly and without shame. This is not a pornographic space. Explicit sexual imagery, graphic descriptions, and unsolicited erotic content are not permitted in the group chat. The events listed here may be explicitly sexual in nature. The chat itself is not.

Sexuality is held here with care, and that care extends to the container we share.

Which of these is true?

Care and accountability

Most of us have been in groups where a comment made us feel unseen, or watched a conflict spiral into something nobody wanted. This space is different, not because friction won't happen, but because we've agreed on what we do when it does.

If something feels off, we address it together rather than let it fester. A comment that landed badly, a dynamic that needs naming, these are things we can work through without it becoming a blowout or someone feeling cancelled. Having this agreement in place already changes the culture. People show up more carefully and more openly when they trust the space can hold what comes up.

We hold queer feminist, unshaming values. The process is about repair and reconnection, not punishment. And we take serious harm seriously. Both things are true.

If something feels uncomfortable, message Amy directly. Everything shared with her is handled with care and confidentiality.

If a formal report is made, you agree to engage in a respectful accountability process. This may involve shame-free mediation, repair, or removal, depending on the severity. Serious violations result in immediate and permanent removal. Refusal to engage results in the same.

A report has been made about my behaviour. I didn't intend any harm. I should:

Your data and membership

Before you enter the space, an admin will arrange a brief video call with you. This is just to confirm who you are. We don't store IDs or keep records. This form is simply your agreement to the community rules.

One small but meaningful ask: please use your name in the group rather than a handle or number. If your WhatsApp contact doesn't display your name, we'll ask you to add it as a tag when you join.

How I found this group

Would you like to post offerings, services, and events in this community? 

(If yes, please tell us more about your offerings below)

Posting events, services, and products

This community was built on trust. Reaching the people inside it is a privilege that comes with real responsibility. If you're a practitioner, event host, or someone offering products aligned with this community's values, we'd love to have you here. What we ask in return is that you show up with the same care and integrity that everyone else in this space has agreed to.

Disclaimer

The events and services listed in this space are organised by independent facilitators. Queer Spirit Cape Town provides a vetted community platform and is not responsible for the safety, conduct, facilitation, or insurance of individual events. Participation in any event is voluntary and at your own discretion.

While we actively support spaces that prioritise consent and ethical practice, we cannot guarantee the conduct of individual facilitators or attendees.

I understand that providing false information about my age or identity will result in immediate removal from the community

Agreement confirmation

Please confirm that you have read and understood the community agreement above.