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The RBDSM Conversation: A Guide to Talking Before Intimacy
When you are considering being intimate with someone, it is helpful to have this conversation first.
RBDSM is a framework for having it. Five letters, five areas: Relationship, Boundaries, Desires, Sexual Health, Meaning. I teach it with two more attached, Aftercare and Trauma awareness, which makes it RBDSM+AT. Those last two are usually presented as optional extras, and they are where I see most of the actual injury happen. What someone needs afterwards, and what their bod


What Is a Queer Women's Temple?
Well, it's not an orgy. We can start there. We've had many conversations with people about our Queer Women's Temple nights. Some rejoice that this finally exists. Most are tentative, and plenty have no idea what the hell this even is.


What's a Temple Night, and What's a Shamanic Temple?
A temple is an intentional space where you get to practice your yes and no, meet joy and bliss and ecstasy, and soften the shame that has held you separate from yourself, others, and the living world.


Um, Let's Not Become a Cult, Okay!
Conscious communities have a shadow side. Everything that makes temple powerful, like altered states, rapid bonding, vulnerability, also makes it exploitable. We name the patterns that signal danger, the practices we actively refuse, and how we design nervous system safety into every decision. Because a healthy temple wants you sovereign, resourced, discerning, and free to go.


The Post-Temple Bliss... Or Crash? Why the Comedown Is Part of the Medicine
The flat days after a temple are not evidence against the opening. They are evidence that your system touched something real enough to reorganise around.


Why Nonmonogamy Feels So Wrong: A History of Mononormativity
Why do I feel disgust at the thought of my partner loving someone else? Why does this feel like betrayal even when everyone consented?


Am I Polyamorous or Monogamous? A Relationship Coach's Honest Guide
Wondering if you're polyamorous or monogamous? A relationship coach breaks down the three layers of love (ideology, identity, and capacity) to help you find your honest answer without the shame.


There's Men's Work That Can Only Be Done With a Woman
Somatosensual therapy for men ready to do the real work: embodied, relational, sexually honest healing that bridges psychology, spirituality, and desire.


Psilocybin Couples Therapy: The Neuroscience of Breaking Stuck Relationship Patterns
Some couples do everything right in therapy and still slide back into the same fight months later. That isn't a failure of effort or love, it's how the adult brain is wired. New neuroscience shows that psilocybin reopens a two-week window where those patterns can finally be rewired. Here's how psilocybin couples therapy works, and who it's for.
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